I always thought it was silly.
I mean, how could someone forget their child in a car? It had to be a lie. A mom who didn’t want to take baby in for a quick errand. A Dad who thought the kids would be fine with a window cracked. Negligent parents, of course.
Well…
I pull in the driveway. The car is blissfully quiet. The drive home from a late evening grocery run in Hubby’s newer car. It felt like a vacation. I open the door. Gather my bag from the passenger seat. Close my door. Start for the house.
Something doesn’t seem quite right.
I stop.
Think.
Look around.
Remember.
The BABY!
I open the back door and pull the infant carrier out – baby sleeping peacefully inside.
Just mere moments that shook me to the core.
Now, how did I forget about my child?
All day I had been anticipating this grocery trip without children. A few minutes to myself. The Hubs was to watch the boys. At the last moment, I decided to take Scrunch – the baby at the time. He was very fussy and would have been a nightmare for the Hubs. I could simply wear him and nurse him and he’d be happy.
Add in the sleep deprivation, the different car, the change in routine without both boys, the last minute decision to take the baby, and the quiet car. A recipe for trouble. I may have gotten a phone call as I was getting out of the car adding to the distraction – I really can’t remember. I do know it was a summer evening.
I see how these horrific accidents can happen. A simple change in routine could be enough of a distraction.
Let’s keep our little ones safe. Let’s do whatever it takes. My solution has been simple. I changed where I keep my bag. No longer do I keep it on the front seat. I place it behind the driver’s seat. That way, I need to open the back door to get my bag. I have to see the carseats. I am instantly reminded to look and see who is with me. I always double check those rear facing seats – it’s harder to see a sleeping babe in one – especially from the front seat (and if the mirror angle is off).
Safe Kids has more tips on how to prevent leaving our kids in our cars as well as many other great safety tips. With this hot summer many of us are experiencing, we need to be extra diligent!
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Many years ago (before I had children) there was a Julia Roberts movie where she was always forgetting her child, and I thought…she's crazy! Actually, she's just a mom, and we all make mistakes.
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Oh Audra,
Only once, but it was much like your experience. I was horrified. We had recently adopted our daughter who screamed incessantly in the carseat… except this one time when she actually fell asleep. No noise — and I forgot I had her with me. Only when I came inside and my husband asked where "screamin' mimi" was did I remember. I ran back to the car — still asleep, sucking her thumb.
Then I had to decide: do I let her sleep or bring her in? I brought her in… and the crying ensued.
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I haven't left a child in the car yet, but I did lock myself out with Claire still in there when she was a few months old. I don't know who was more upset about it.. Me or the baby! lol
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My dad helped a woman break into her car last summer. She had locked her baby and keys in. It was really hot and the police and AAA would take too long. He managed to get in via the trunk which she had open to load groceries). Now I am extra careful about my keys! So glad you and your sweetie were fine! Scary! Audra Michelle Writer, Rediscovering Domesticityhttp://rediscoveringdomesticity.com/Want a signature like mine? Click here.
I think as moms, we've all done something similar to this. And in those 2-3 seconds that we've had lapses in reasoning, it can make you feel horrible as a parent. I love the idea of leaving your bag in the backseat though – a simple solution that could help out immensely!
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keeping your bag in the back is a GREAT tip when with the lil ones–when they are so quite-i can see how it can be done
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I locked myself out when our daughter was 2. She kept waving at me through the glass as I tried to mime turning the knob. I finally asked a neighbor for help and he broke the window. After that I kept a key outside. Then the door in another house slammed shut on me as I was in the garage in my socks in the winter. Good thing the dog knew how to open the door for me!
I also ran into whether to leave the sleepng baby safely in his car seat…in the garage (not too hot, not too cold). The thought came to me of him waking up and me not having remembered I left him there. Not trusting my memory, I took him out of the seat.
Good posting, Audra. The comments left are also well thought out!
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This is so great, Audra. Such an important reminder to be safe. We are all moms and sometimes our head just gets full of distraction after distraction. My kids are old enough now that they don't sit quietly at all unless they're mad at me for something. It would be nearly impossible to forget them in the car. They'd definitely give me an ear full. But, I remember all too well how mommy brain caused a few really dumb moments when they were infants.
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